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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sex life has nothing to do with my kids.  I know I am a great mother and if I decided to have an affair, it would have nothing to do with them.  If the fall out was that my husband and I divorced, then I am confident that I would be a great single mom and continue to meet their needs like I do everyday.

If my husband was a saint, I would not be considering an affair.  Hurt goes both ways in that regard.  If I find some happiness being with another man, so be it.  It is better than where I am at now.[/quote]

Sounds like you are not happy. If so, why not be honest and talk to your spouse. Why the need to go the coward's way out and look out for yourself vs your family? Ugh if he were to leave you and take the kids, he would definitely deserve it, since obviously you can only think about yourself.[/quote]

Not the PP here, but you have no many idea how many years she may have been actively trying to talk to her DH about their marriage.  I know I spent YEARS trying to fix things.  Eventually, you just say, if he doesn't care enough, why should i?[/quote]

Then if she spent years trying to fix a broken marriage to no avail, time to end the marriage. Why cheat? It's the cowards way out because it's robbing everyone of a real chance to move on. Her husband and she should find someone that makes them happy. If intimacy is so dead in the marriage and can't be revived, the answer is divorce not an affair.[/quote]

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