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[quote=Anonymous]Pp again. Next time find someone who loves you for you and don’t mention how much you have saved. Many newlyweds are starting out and have starter homes. They have budgets. Almost everyone has to compromise. Many guys who are high income or rich are purposely vague about their money. I don’t know if you told her exactly how much you saved but that may have been your problem.

I have a friend who was dating this banker. He had excellent taste, dressed nicely and had a fancy title. When my friend got married to him and started their home search, the budget was 600k. They live in a lower COL city. I remember my friend telling me the budget and I thought it was low for a banker. They saw old houses and new construction townhouses. They ended up buying and moving into the townhouse. She wanted what your ex wanted. She wanted to stay home and raise the kids. She loved this man. They ended up divorced. My friended wanted a nice house in a good neighborhood. Who doesn’t? Her fiancé gave her a budget. My friend never knew exactly how much her husband earned.

Instead of thinking she is suddenly a materialistic gold digger, you could have reasoned with her. She may have been naive or immature about money. Point is don’t go around saying you saved $2m to spend on your future wife and family and then get all upset when the fiancé expects you to spend it on the house and her.[/quote]

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