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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]she sounds immature with unrealistic expectations more than anything else.  but you really dont need and shouldnt want (nor likely cannot afford) a 5-6 bedroom first home in this area.  it sounds like she wants you to take care of her?  is that what you are looking for?  couples therapy to work on communication might be one option?  how is the wedding planning going?[/quote]

I don’t know where the fiancé was from. Did she live in a lower HCOL?

We live in a large house with 7 bedrooms now but we used to live in an apartment, townhouse and a 4 bedroom house.

I have 3 kids. Will they want to live in a big house like ours? Maybe. Maybe not. Will they be able to afford this type of house when they first get married? Definitely not.

Sounds like the OP got his ego bruised, asked to go to counseling and prematurely asked for his ring back. It didn’t sound like they got very far in the wedding planning process. I guess the problem was that OP actually has the money and told the fiancé about this money. Maybe next time don’t tell your girlfriend/fiancé that you have been saving millions to buy a house for his future family and freak out when you find the fiancé and she wants a nice house.[/quote]

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