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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I read the description of the ex I think she has Borderline Personality Disorder or is simply one of the smartest women around. Men want women to be pretty and lavish with sex, praise, and attention, and logistical life support. Most women who earn a decent living are unwilling to expend that much of their energy  to construct and maintain the "femininity" that keeps husbands happy. Men stay because they don't want to lose joint resources or access to their kids. Few actually prefer equality. OP, your ex will find someone new and it won't take long because women like her are increasingly rare. She knows her value to men like you.[/quote]

I don't know about the UMC white collar men you know, but the ones I know prefer driven women with thriving careers who can be their intellectual equal.[/quote]

At no point did I say that there is any conflict between being attractive and sensuous and being a driven person who is an intellectual equal. What most men prefer is a woman who is pretty, lavish with sex and attention AND will have a decent career AND will do the lion's share of the management of housekeeping and childcare. That is why so many women on DCUM are so bitterly disappointed after marriage. Their husbands object to them becoming less physically attractive or agreeable AND expect them to do more with the kids and arounds the house EVEN IF the wives work longer hours or earn more. My point was that OP was hooked by his fiancée because she was the rare professionally vital woman who was willing to present herself as the fantasy of many men: a woman who likes looking pretty for her partner, having sex with her partner, and hanging on his every word. That is exactly what many men desire, whether she works at the Supreme Court or at Target. A woman who obtained a degree from a prestigious university AND is willing to cater to him: even better. I am sorry that men are this way, but most actually are. Women initiate the majority of divorces because they learn this fundamental truth too late.[/quote]

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