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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So he found the ideal type of woman and is not currently with her. Why? OP should think about this. [/quote]

My initial observation was that he seemed more compatible with the previous ex as well but OP didn't delve into too much details other than she looked amazing and was thrifty.  [/quote]

OP did talk about her. He said they dated for two year and he planned to marry her. She tried to make herself want kids because that’s what her family was pushing, but she decided she didn’t want to have kids. OP does want kids and things ended. He said she is married to a guy who doesn’t want kids. [/quote]
DP here.  I don’t know why I am so invested in this thread but I agree that it sounded like the previous ex was more compatible except she didn’t want kids.  Based on what OP has said about his parents marriage and growing up, he is looking for someone that wants to build with him. It doesn’t mean that they have to contribute the same amount or that they are locked into SAHM or WOHM but rather the discuss how they both work together to achieve whatever that goal might be.  One of my relatives that is fairly wealthy now - she was the one that worked the job that had benefits until she had her second child while her DH worked the type of job that really helped to set the family up financially.  I also have no doubt that she contributed to the down payment of their first home that was a very savvy investment. While I would never say that she is frugal, she doesn’t live beyond her means and is a partner in the combined goals with spouse.[/quote]

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