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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here, not the one you are arguing with but in a similar situation.  My answer to the above two questions:

1) Marriage became sexless over time.  We had a totally normal and great sexual relationship dating and pre-kids.  Once kids came, it was basically duty sex only.  We probably had two dozen discussions, she always said she knows its an issue, felt bad about it.  Yes, tried toys, novelty, scheduling, etc. but she never regained interest.  After a decade of this, i stopped initiating because it was clear she was just doing it to get it over with.  While you may see that as a loving compromise, to be resigned to sex with an uninterested partner - who tells you to do it and get it over with - is soul crushing.

2) My wife has told me she doesn't want to know.  It would surprise you but she and I are really quite happy and sometimes playful know.  Does she suspect something?  I am sure, she can't possibly believe I have gone from a high drive person to nothing.  It's been a year since we have been intimate.

Sexual variety is nice and sex with AP is great but I would give it up if i could have a fun sexual experience with my wife.  As my AP says, my wife could put her out of business tomorrow.[/quote]

PP - have you had one AP or several? Where are you finding them?[/quote]

100% believe Ashley Madison. The people of that website designed to break up two families instead of one should die slow painful deaths.[/quote]

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