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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think it's an issue of feeling entitled to sex, but marriage is an agreement to not have sex with other people (usually -- there are open marriages).  So if you are asking someone to agree to *only* have sex with you, then it's kind of cruel to not ever have sex with your spouse.

I'm a woman.  And I don't think that anyone thinks a husband (or a wife, for that matter) is entitled to sex whenever they want it.  But I do think that sex is part of marriage.  And if you are going to deny someone sex (barring a medical reason or some recent tragedy/trauma), you have no right to expect them not to seek it elsewhere.
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OP you are nuts. Like someone else said, intimacy and sex are what differentiate marriage from "just friends." If you don't want to have sex with someone, or you plan to stop after marriage, or withhold it because you're mad about things, don't be upset when your spouse leaves or cheats on you. [/quote]

Same goes for men who don't provide well for the family, or do the house hold chores that are expected.  If they don't do these things they shouldn't be surprised if spouse leaves or cheats.[/quote]

That analogy doesn't actually make any sense. The reason why someone cheats when their spouse won't have sex is that's the only way to get sex. If your spouse won't help clean, the way you get cleaning outside of the marriage is by hiring a house cleaner.[/quote]

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