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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you process, in a healthy way, men sitting there for hours staring at your body parts like you're subhuman? Do you have a mental game/trick that gives you a feeling of empowerment over this? Does it feel familiar, as a sexual abuse survivor? No judgment in this question, more purely psychological curiosity. [/quote] I'm not OP, but I was also a stripper for several years. I enjoyed pole dancing, and loved when customers watched me. In fact, if they didn't look (and tip well), I would get mad! There was no mental game - I liked being watched. And being naked didn't make me feel subhuman. It was exhilarating. The only time I didn't enjoy it was when I wasn't getting enough attention. I trained hard to learn and perfect my stage shows, and I felt insulted when they weren't appreciated. [/quote]
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