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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be honest, you didn't really want to work all that much and preferred being home with the kids rather than enduring corporate or office drudgery. It's a totally fine and understandable preference, but own it. You were relieved that husband's high salary could accommodate that lifestyle preference even if it could potentially end up in a result like this. Well, welcome to the result... Time to start taking accountability for your choices and preferences and, ultimately, life by probably getting a job now rather than fretting too much over a spousal support settlement. [/quote Well you are obviously a male or a female that did not have children or never cared for your children and never did the hardest job of your life, unpaid. There is no luxury in being a stay at home mom. Unless you have a nanny, house keeper and cook. Don’t be such a dumbas. I hope karma train smacks you right in the face [/quote] Of course it's a luxury. Don't be silly or defensive about your choices. Own it. [/quote] It’s also a luxury to HAVE a SAH spouse or a spouse who works PT and takes care of all of the household chores and most of the mundane childcare and logistics. Don’t be defensive about your choices. If you wanted this lifestyle, own it. [/quote]
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