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[quote=FBO][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The affair ended.  I have everything I need, not always everything I want.[/quote]

Would you do it again knowing how things worked out?

Does your DH know you had the affair?
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That's a tough question.  If I were just thinking of myself, honestly, I absolutely would...even with all the hurt and sadness at the end.  I didn't want to leave my DH for OM, even if I thought I did for a few days, but I was mostly hurt because of how quickly I was tossed aside.  I mean, OM felt bad that I was upset, but I don't think he was that terribly sad that it ended.  He got over that part pretty quickly.  I was pretty sad...I guess nobody wants to think they're discard-able.

However, if I take the OM into consideration, I would probably have to say no, because he had to deal with so much fallout.  I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

My DH doesn't know, so I had to deal with much less.  [/quote]

It sounds as if the wife of this posters OM found out about the affair, yet the posters DH did not.  Did I read between the lines on that one?

That completely changes the situation in a lot of ways.  Very tough to figure out what to do, or to do it again.[/quote]

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