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[quote=Anonymous]To echo, size 14 is very, very different on different people depending upon height, makeup (e.g., big boned or not), and age. 5'2 and 215 is significant. It could be a whole variety of things. But here's the deal, offering a vacation isn't going to make her all of sudden jump on the diet/exercise wagon. If it were that easy... There could be mental health, physical health (e.g., thyroid), or discipline issues. One thing you could do, be SUPPORTIVE. That means doing it as a family...offer to cook dinners (that are healthy), take family walks with the kids in a jogging stroller, get bikes and go no rides on the weekends, take the kids to the playground so she can go exercise, encourage her to join a gym with classes like OrangeTheory, do a dietbet together, get her an Apple watch or fitbit to track steps, don't bring home unhealthy/processed foods or encourage it, etc. At the end of the day, it's her decision and she has to be the one to commit to getting healthy. [/quote]
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