To echo, size 14 is very, very different on different people depending upon height, makeup (e.g., big boned or not), and age.

5'2 and 215 is significant. It could be a whole variety of things. But here's the deal, offering a vacation isn't going to make her all of sudden jump on the diet/exercise wagon. If it were that easy... There could be mental health, physical health (e.g., thyroid), or discipline issues. One thing you could do, be SUPPORTIVE. That means doing it as a family...offer to cook dinners (that are healthy), take family walks with the kids in a jogging stroller, get bikes and go no rides on the weekends, take the kids to the playground so she can go exercise, encourage her to join a gym with classes like OrangeTheory, do a dietbet together, get her an Apple watch or fitbit to track steps, don't bring home unhealthy/processed foods or encourage it, etc. At the end of the day, it's her decision and she has to be the one to commit to getting healthy.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is 5'2" 215 lbs. I still bang her because, well I need to get laid. But she is no longer visually appealing to me in the least. I have offered her a new wardrobe and nice vacation if she can lose 100 lbs but still cant get motivated to not look like a cow.

What was she when you met? When did it change?

When we met she was between 105 and 110. Shes had a few kids but always shed the weight. In the last three years shes become complacent and has ballooned to where she is now.

Yikes.
I am 5’2” and I was anorexic at 97lbs. Size 0.
I got healthy and had two kids. I’m 140lbs now. I battle my mind everyday to not revert back to starving myself. Because it would be so easy to do...

To the poster with wife who gained 100 pounds - that’s a crazy amount especially if before that age was thin. What’s going on? Depression? Health? Addiction ? Sounds really sad for all involved

Too big

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Anonymous wrote:Yes they are my kids. 3 in total but is that really any excuse for looking like a pig?

Lovely way to talk about the mother of your children.
Post your picture for comparison.

Like it or not, I can go to any public place right now, and point to more than one mom who is a fat pig. As the PP said, there's no excuse for it.

Anonymous wrote:Yes they are my kids. 3 in total but is that really any excuse for looking like a pig?

Lovely way to talk about the mother of your children.
Post your picture for comparison.

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Anonymous wrote:Size 14
Would you still be sexually attracted to her?

How tall? Size 14 is not fat for many women.

5feet 7 inches

I am 5'7" a size 14 and I am within the weight suggested as healthy by my doctor. i walk 15000+ steps a day, I average 30 flights of stairs a day, I bycycle 40 minutes 4 times a week. I have very healthy.

A healthy weight at 5'7" would be under 155lbs. I doubt you are a size 14 at that weight and height.

I highly doubt it too. Unless you have pretty huge boobs and hips, a size 14 is not going to be within normal range.

Anonymous wrote:What do you guys look like? I’m sure you all have six-pack abs.

Six pack is one thing, but whether you’re a woman or a man, fat is unattractive and more epidemic here than in other countries. That makes it a choice here. If you’re lonely, clean up your act.

5’2 and 215 is really, really bad. Stop giving the PP crap. He’s right to be upset. This isn’t the equivalent of a dad bod or “not having six pack abs.” This is practically being as wide as you are tall.

What do you guys look like? I’m sure you all have six-pack abs.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is 5'2" 215 lbs. I still bang her because, well I need to get laid. But she is no longer visually appealing to me in the least. I have offered her a new wardrobe and nice vacation if she can lose 100 lbs but still cant get motivated to not look like a cow.

What was she when you met? When did it change?

When we met she was between 105 and 110. Shes had a few kids but always shed the weight. In the last three years shes become complacent and has ballooned to where she is now.

Yikes.
I am 5’2” and I was anorexic at 97lbs. Size 0.
I got healthy and had two kids. I’m 140lbs now. I battle my mind everyday to not revert back to starving myself. Because it would be so easy to do...

I would be extremely disappointed and probably wouldn't recognize her

Very sad thought

Way to big!!size 6 or smaller is ideal

Anonymous wrote:size 14 is considered average in the US.

Average becasmuse the majority of people in the US are OBESE!!

Yes. No doubt at all

OP sounds like an @ss.