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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, kudos to you for putting yourself out there and being vulnerable, but keep your options open! He took for granted first that you were already exclusive and now he's doing it again. I agree with a PP, you shouldn't allow anyone to use you.[/quote]

I'm sorry, how did he take for granted that they were exclusive? Did you read the whole thread? She said that she knew he assumed they were exclusive and she understood how he felt that way.  She encouraged him to feel that way. I think what you meant to say was kudos to OP for manipulating another persons feelings.[/quote]

Uh, no. If anything,[b] I believe he assumed she was being monogamous and was riding the fence as wel[/b]l. So many women have been burned when making assumptions of exclusivity. OP, don't play that game with him. He should be "over" this quickly or he will string you along or punish you for the duration of the relationship (if there ever is one).[/quote]

What, in all that's been written, would lead you to the conclusion that, prior to all this, he was on the fence? Why would you conclude he's going to "punish" her??? Maybe, just maybe, the situation unfolded in way that caused him to be unsure about OP.

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