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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For sure he did not like seeing me out with guy 2. He actually hated it.

As far as him using me like a couple of you said, well yeah, I thought about that. But you know I also thought even if he is, how is that really different than guy 2? With guy 2, it was all and only about sex. With Mr 1, it's now sex AND more. So I don't think it's fair to slam him because now we had sex. Does this make sense?[/quote]

Is this the first time you had sex with #1? I'm having a hard time following.

Did #1 think you were exclusive but you weren't even sleeping with him?[/quote]

Does that matter?  We're "inventing" what determines exclusivity all of a sudden?
He inferred exclusivity by time spent (wrong on his part), but if you're asking if he slept with her and that's why he thought it, then guy #2 could have easily believed he had exclusivity with her, considering she kept coming back for more.

Seems like guy #1 is damned either way, according to DCUM. 
Angry woman 1:  Women are allowed to have casual sex. 
Angry woman 2:  Why would guy #1 think it's something more if he didn't sleep with her?
Angry woman 3:  It's called taking your time and getting to know someone before sex. If he likes her, he'd respect that.

Seems like women will define sex to mean whatever they want it to mean during an argument.

Pick ONE argument at stick with it, if you're going to keep attacking guy 1's predicament in all this. [/quote]

Guy 1 is not a victim. He would be just as capable as the woman of bringing up being exclusive. [/quote]

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