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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So if he make the plans and hires the sitter, you're sure to put out that night?  And if he makes the plans for every night, you're going to put out ever night right?   [/quote]

It would be a hell of a lot more likely, yes.  And I am never putting out every single night.  If DH expects that he should just go ahead and start an affair or divorce me now.  Every night is not realistic for most people, [b]freak[/b].[/quote]

This is the most honest answer you will ever get from the passive aggressive withholder. It's why all the "you need to change" and "it's just a bad time" and "things will get better" posters are liars, intentionally or not.

Your desire to have sex with the person to whom you pledged your life,  foresaking all other, is your "problem."

They have no interest in, and therefore will never, change.

Freak.[/quote]

Look, when you have a baby and your libido tanks, not wanting to have sex is not being passive aggressive.  If your body doesn't respond it doesn't respond.  I've been very open about the fact that I just don't have the desire I used to.  People like me are not liars, and wanting to renew your whole bond - not just sex - is not passive aggessive or crazy.  You sound like a Grade A jerk and I'm glad my husband is not like you.[/quote]

As the HD wife, I don't care if my husband has to fake wanting me. So long as he can get it up, we're good.[/quote]

Well, we're all different.  Some of us want more than that.  Can you begin to acknowledge that?[/quote]

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