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[quote=Anonymous]- Good at almost everything he does
- High earner (over 500K)
- funny
- does lots of little things for me
- has gone to therapy and learned to be a better communicator
- involved dad, really cares about his kids and loves them 
- emotionally available
- enjoys taking to me and spending time with me
- smart but humble about it
- for the most part our libidos match
- not sexist, racist, transphobic, etc.
- really proud of my accomplishments
- very good-looking to me

Cons:
- he is nonstop and tends to judge those who aren't as ambitious/productive as he is
- has some blind spots; will judge others for things that he himself struggles with
- tends to micromanage because he believes he knows the best way to do everything (and tbh it often is the best way to do things)
- criticizes my parenting, but gets defensive when I try to explain why I'm making the parenting choices I'm making

Unsure if it's a pro or con:
- really into fitness, can be a bit obsessive about it, but I guess that's better than him dying young because of health problems
- concerned about money so he is in a job that I fear is bad for his mental health, but better than being a deadbeat

Honestly sometimes my biggest struggle in my relationship is worrying I'm not good enough for him. [/quote]

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