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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess the little woman should shut up and put up. It’s all her fault anyway. Go make me a sandwich. [/quote]

Oh the drama. Or she could have proceeded with her evening since no one actually did anything wrong.[/quote]

This. Kind of stunning that OP ruined both her husband’s call AND didn’t even get on her own call over this non-issue. Talk about an overreaction. [/quote]

I think it's obvious OP has resentments that run deeper than this one tiny thing. Even though I think her overreaction was uncalled for and embarrassing to them both, seems like they need to have a good mature talk about their partnership moving forward. Including how to get her needs met, whatever they may be, and how to handle differences in a mature and civilized manner.[/quote]

There are two possibilities here. 1) OP's lashing out is entirely about DH not following her parenting handbook, even though no harm or even inconvenience was caused. 2) She's angry about other things and using this one small thing as a pretext to express the anger that's been building for a while.

Although option 1 is possible, I'm going with option 2.[/quote]

I agree this is the most likely scenario. But since OP didn't give any broader context about their relationship, hard to know. If he usually helps with the challenging kid's bedtime routine (OP doesn't say one way or the other), and chose not to give up his evening to focus on it this one time, it was silly to make a huge deal about it. [/quote]

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