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Reply to "what's the worst affair story you've heard of where the marriage recovered?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, the children of marriage are also innocent and not adults. Why would the wife care about someone else's innocence ahead of her own kids? [/quote] yup[/quote] +10000[/quote] I'm not saying the wife has to love and cherish the OW's kid but personally if I saw an infant in need or being harmed I would step in. I care about infants being placed in shitty situations because they are infants. I would not teach my kids that it's ok to abandon your kids. I would not teach my kids that it's ok to walk away from someone innocent who needs you. I want my kids to become good people. Good people do the right thing even when it's hard so I'll model that. You keep framing this as 'above her own kids.' I don't cherish the kids at St Jude more than my own kids but I can still give money to them. Being a good person doesn't have to come at the expense of one, and your husband damaged your kids when he cheated. All the kids are collateral damage. You get to teach them how to handle yourself with grace. Or that's what I would do, clearly not what you would do. [/quote]
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