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Reply to "If you aren't sexually attracted to your spouse"
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[quote=Anonymous]What OP is missing is so very common in male-female sexual desire. Many have already discussed Spontaneous (male) vs. Responsive (female) desire, but let me add a wrinkle. My DW is low drive, at least compared to me. She never initiated, and for years, when we had sex, it was apparent she could often take it or leave it. Now, she has regained some of her libido. So while she still never initiates, she seems genuinely excited when we are having sex. Its a subtle difference, one of lying there and taking it, versus moving hips, asking for something specific, anything to signify through body language that she is a mutual lover. I get what OP is complaining about. It's the difference between your husband showing up for date night and not paying attention, versus being interactive on date night even if he would probably rather be home on the couch watching sports. [/quote]
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