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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again.  A pattern is emerging from this thread so far.

The self-appointed relationship experts seem to be saying some variation of "all marriages end up that way; men and women are just different" so suck it up and be happy you have a (possibly) wonderful life partner and co-parent.

Those spouses (all DWs so far) who actually share their feelings about their specific situation will usually say something about how they are bored with the sameness of it all, but if you read carefully it seems to be more about how they are unhappy with who their spouses are.  Of course that includes a significant subset of the "bad boys make me hot, but I didn't want to marry one, and now I'm bored with the good husband/father material I did marry" types.

Pretty goddamn depressing so far.[/quote]

Like this one. Personally I find the "only have sex with bad boys and don't put out for my beta husband" narrative to be pretty revolting. The rejection of the idea that this is a normal relationship problem coupled with the badboy theory to me says you're looking for a way to blame her instead of be happy

The fact that the first post that sparked your interest was an alpha/beta comment was also fairly telling. [/quote]

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