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[quote=Anonymous]This has been such a heated and interesting discussion.  As the mom of two above average (but not super elite) athletes,  I am thrilled with the role sports has played in their lives. I agree that you cannot make every family function or birthday party that comes down the pike - but that is not the issue here OP raised here.  Her specific circumstances, and the special relationship she has with her sister, in my opinion, seem worthy grounds for the using "I need to miss a game card".   It happens all of the time- especially at age 14.  To suggest otherwise is crazy.  People that make the choice to miss a wedding over a tournament do so for personal reasons driven by their personal values - this thread is about personal choice - not about a toxic sports culture. OP's sister chose not to play her card for reasons only she knows - and honestly OP - hard as it is, I would let it go.  This is all about her kid and some sort of pressure she is under and not you.  In her mind it is okay and makes sense.  She wouldn't do it if she didn't think you would understand.  On the other hand - as a parent sitting among many different personality types on the bench - it does seem clear that there is a fine line between dedication and desperation.  [/quote]

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