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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a core group of men and women on this forum whose entire existence is around sex. I really hate then. Everything about them is sex sex sex. I don't know if they are this way because they are in a sexless marriage, or they are sex addict, or just mentally ill. Sex isn't everything in a relationship. [/quote]

Sex is absolutely the most important part of a marriage.  It is the core part of the human experience.  I'm sorry that you don't feel that way.[/quote]

Some of us think love is the core part of the human experience.[/quote]

And some of us haven’t completely separated the two of our heads. If you read Helen Fischer’s work, you will find that LOVE hormones get released during sex as well as hugging, breastfeeding etc. I happen to express love through physical contact and I feel loved when DH have sex regularly. Of course if he simply couldn’t do it for some reason, I wouldn’t leave but if he WOULDN’T, I’d feel very lonely and unloved and I’d probably consider whether our love was as solid as I’d thought.

Shaming people because they find sex to be a core way people who love each other communicate is not the flex you think it is. [/quote]

Nobody is shaming you but it’s not the core way you feel love. It’s one way and it’s a way you put too much emphasis on probably due to some lacking in intimacy in childhood or friendships. [b]But if sex is your core way to get live it’s not normal [/b][/quote]

Of course it’s normal within a romantic relationship. I had a great childhood but thanks for your armchair psychotherapy!
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No it’s not normal if it is the CORE way. If it’s one way it’s normal, but if you can’t have an intimate living relationship it’s not normal.

Many people are not normal and that’s fine , but it’s just not.

I’m sorry you can’t find intimate living relationships without sex.[/quote]

You’re arguing with yourself or you’re purposely misinterpreting what’s been written. Either way, I’m not interested in participating.[/quote]

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