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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you need to look in certain places. I don’t see the hate you’re getting. I met my husband at 35. He had some family money and a lucrative business. I signed a prenup. I’m a nurse and took 5 years off to raise our two boys. I managed all of the childcare and household stuff. My husband is super involved in our kids lives. I have everything I want. You can find it. Don’t give up hope. [/quote] Did your husband ( then boyfriend) tell you you were going to be a SAHM or was that your choice? Because you wanting to or the two of you deciding together this is what you want is a lot different than dictating to you want you will do. Also, your husband is super involved with the kids, OP says he doesn't want to be involved with th kids until they are 7 or 8, and then only as much as he can.[/quote] OP here. Yes. He told me in the early stages of dating it was important to him to find a wife who wants to stay home. I let my husband handle the jig decisions so it worked for me. My husband is involved but I still do 90% of the work. My husband helps with cooking, bedtime routines, and on the weekends. The rest of the stuff I do. [/quote]
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