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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] So you dad told you who he is, and is not, having sex with? Otherwise how exactly did he lie to you? 
As to putting energy elsewhere: his romantic sexual energy has NOTHING to do with his children, and your mom did not want this energy, therefore nobody in the family was cheated of anything. 
Again, it's YOU who has some weird issue here, confusing an adult's sexual behavior with their child relations. These are totally unrelated (excluding incestuous pedophiles).[/quote]

You sound like a narcissist with terrible reasoning abilities.  In our society, kids who live with married parents generally assume their parents are in a monogamous relationship.  When they find out that’s not true and one parent secretaries tge other, it rocks the kids’ world.  This really isn’t hard to understand.  Stop pretending that everyone’s life is full of neat little boxes, just because that’s what you need to do to rationalize your crappy behavior.[/quote]

That "assumed married in monogamous relationship" includes a reciprocal presumption that parents are, you know, actually having sex with each other. Because people are not monogamous with a sexually inactive partner. If, as you believe, kids CARE about their parents' marital sexual status, then their world should be equally rocked when told one spouse is sexless, which totally explains why the normal libido spouse is going elsewhere.

Stop pretending that kids really know (or care) what goes on with their parents' sex life.[/quote]

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