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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have 3 teens amd I am a serial cheater. I demand discretion and have never been caught. I won’t get caught as I am ultra careful and leave no evidence whatsoever. How do I not think about my kids? Simple. That is not part of their lives.[/quote]

My dad was like you. Found out later in life.  Only so long you can hide it.  It destroyed my relationship with both my parents, especially my dad. I no longer trust him and think any of the good in my childhood was a shame. [/quote]
There is something very wrong that you would be so heavily invested in your father's sex life and I suspect you struggle with relationships in general.[/quote]

You are a sociopath. It has nothing to do with sex life, it's about lies and putting energy somewhere other than your children... you could have used the time and energy on your kids, but you didn't.

You will never understand since you are too f'd in the head. [/quote]

So you dad told you who he is, and is not, having sex with? Otherwise how exactly did he lie to you?
As to putting energy elsewhere: his romantic sexual energy has NOTHING to do with his children, and your mom did not want this energy, therefore nobody in the family was cheated of anything.
Again, it's YOU who has some weird issue here, confusing an adult's sexual behavior with their child relations. These are totally unrelated (excluding incestuous pedophiles). [/quote]

This is a very cold and callous way of thinking about sex.  Like it's purely a physical act, such as taking a dump.  It's very odd, but I suspect that you are reaching for anything to defend your behavior.

Would you feel the same way if a parent was lying to their spouse about something else?  You just don't think that how someone treats their spouse has anything to do with their kids?  You have a very odd vision of a family unit.  It's like singular beings who happen to inhabit the same space.[/quote]

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