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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't care what y'all do but the #1 reason BY FAR that I do not SAHP is because my spouse would even further check out and even further be unappreciative, unthankful, and ungrateful for everything I do running the house, raising the children, managing the sitters, planning sports/vacations/ECs, and bonding with the kids. He literally just tags along and works on his iPhone. 
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Interesting. This is my situation too except it’s a big part of why I continue to stay home. If I have to do everything anyway, I don’t also want a job too. How do you feel like your having a job makes your DH better?[/quote]

Having a job keeps me sane and able to easily identify his lying and BS. Plus I love the field I work in and the pay and hours are good. I frequently tell home to Go get a job like mine for $300k and be present in the house and for the family. He refuses. He big plan is to retire at 50 when the kids are grown and do God’ knows what. All the hard work will be over then with the kids and I’ll go get my C level job. He can continue to tag along and make messes in the house. [/quote]

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