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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what are her reasons for not wanting sex? . . . Is it a physical/health issue? Depression? Loss of attraction or connection? What does she actually say about all this?  [/quote]

I can't speak for OP, but based on personal experience, it wouldn't be surprising if she didn't actually know the reason. "I don't know" isn't a very satisfying answer for anyone. So, maybe she comes up with some reasons that sound plausible. She knows she's busy, so she says, "I'm just so busy all the time. All I want to do at bed time is go to sleep." So, he picks up some of the stuff she used to do. It doesn't help. She just fills her time with more stuff because: a) there is always more to be done; and b) at some level, she doesn't really want to have the extra time because then she might feel more obligated to have sex. Date nights do nothing. She blames it on pressure to have sex. But, when there is no pressure, that doesn't result in sex either -- she just manages to put sex out of her mind for long stretches.

Yeah, like so many others in this thread, I'm projecting my own issues; but, I think the point stands that she might not know and might have thrown out some false leads in order to provide some explanation. [/quote]

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