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[quote=Anonymous]OP, what are her reasons for not wanting sex? Surely you have discussed this many times during your years of sexlessness and counseling. It it a physical/health issue? Depression? Loss of attraction or connection? What does she actually say about all this? And have you been direct in communicating with her - have you explained (rationally, not passive-aggressively) that the lack of intimacy is a big problem for you and that the marriage is in danger of failing? Do you still try to initiate sex or have you given up? Does she feel desired by you?

I don't know what you're like in real life, but you're a bit combative in your responses. Make sure you are communicating openly and lovingly with her because honestly, there is nothing more unattractive in a man than being combative, petulant, and passive-aggressive. It will only push her away.

I think you should decide whether you truly love her and want to stay married. Then work on communicating in a more positive and direct way, and see if the issues with intimacy can be fixed. [/quote]

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