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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't buy gifts for my in laws. He doesn't buy gifts for my parents. I manage my family and he manages his. If he forgets to send a mother's day/godchild's bday/family wedding present then that's on him. I'm not his secretary.[/quote] +1 I will remind him of family events/birthdays/etc if I remember, and he does the same for me. But I don't manage his relationships with his family, or vice versa. All the PPs decrying how mean OP is don't seem to realize that no one ever expects a husband to manage his wife's relations with her family, but somehow it's terrible and cruel when the wife won't manage the husband's. :roll: If it were really a priority the husband would do it himself. No one is "too busy" to send a birthday card or order a Christmas gift on Amazon.[/quote]
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