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[quote=Anonymous]I married someone ( for love ) who turned out to be "wealthier", at least on paper. It wasnt part of our dating life and I figured it could be the same way for our married life. NOPE. It turns out the family has major psychological problems and are hoarders / have the bag lady syndrome . Obsessed with not spending and /or seeming poor. They are also impossibly conceited and mean spirited. I am hoping to inspire my husband to take up more of a career so he can build a sense of self worth and find his footing as a human being. While I love him to the ends of the earth, had I known what I was in for in terms of restrictions on our freedom, no agency, no independence, I would have run in the opposite direction. I defintely married way down compared to girlfriends who married a plumber / engineer / honest working guy. We dont have children and are not sure we can. Not sure I want to. Could never live like this with kids. [/quote]
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