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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh, sorry OP. Is there any possibility you and your husband could have an open relationship, or a poly relationship? Are you happy outside of this?[/quote]

Great question. I think the answer is yes. I am not OP, but it seems she is actually okay with this, other than the idea that it should not be happening. I would have to hear some other explanation for how she stayed with him after all these years and DH continuously returning. [/quote]

I am not OK with an open marriage. I am not ok with my husband having sex with other people.. I stayed the first time because he said he ended it with her. The second time, he told me I was being anxious and paranoid and there was nothing going on, and by continuing to harass her, I was putting his job in jeopardy. The second time I didn't have incriminating evidence; just an email about a group lunch that she was on (he invited several colleagues to lunch, including her). But I had a hunch...

Anyway, I don't want to stay and let him continue to have an affair with her. I want him to hold up his end of the commitment bargain we made on our wedding day.[/quote]

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