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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In OP's world "put forth some effort and ask what you can do to improve the relationship" = doing everything / "it's all on me" No wonder he doesn't have the relationship he desires! I can't imagine jumping to the conclusions he does and being unwilling to change or consider what I need to change. [/quote] I think one issue is that he feels like he's already put forth quite a bit of effort and that she has not. He comes here and the advice is for him to do yet more. I don't blame the commenters -- he's the one here; and telling him that she ought to do this or that won't be very productive. But, I also get why he would be resistant. He feels like he's doing all the work. [/quote]
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