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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what you are experiencing is a natural progression of a marital relationship. How old is your child? Why does divorce scare you?

I suggest individual counseling first. Maybe once you sort yourself out, you can suggest couples' counseling to your wife. But in my experience, once the relationship is done, it's done. You can choose to move on, to tolerate it with whining or without whining. I doubt you can fix this, you'll be wasting time and delaying the inevitable. Good luck to you whatever you decide.[/quote]

Or instead of spending money to talk to a stranger who probably can't help, you could spend the cash doing fun things together.  Go on hikes, vacations, to see indepdent films, have date nights, work on a home improvement project, travel etc.  [/quote]

Yeah, we do that.  I am in the middle of if a huge project on the house right now.  But I guess you missed the part where I schedule date nights...[b]try reading again[/b].[/quote]

Yikes.  Well now we know why your wife isn't interested in you...you're mean.  [/quote]

Oh give me a break. In the judgmental world of DCUM, his post is not mean at all. The women in this forum just love to blame the man. OP, it sounds like you've made efforts. I don't think you sound like a terribly boring person and it seems like you've tried to connect with dates and small talk and stuff. I was in your shoes (I'm a woman though.) we didn't go to counseling because I think we both felt that it would be fruitless. I point blank asked my ex husband one day "do you still want to be married to me?" And was greeted with silence. It was a tough pill to swallow at the time but I'm now happily divorced and in a relationship where I feel appreciated and we click. It's been 4 years together and we still are interested in the little things like each other's day and mundane work matters. If she doesn't want to reconnect or join your efforts to spark the romance again, I'd leave. [/quote]

Really?  I think OP has written a few posts that reveal his personality and his attitude.  If he talks to his wife the way he talks to people here it's no wonder she's more interested in her phone. [/quote]

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