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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH is also emotionally abusive and used to lie and gaslight me.  I started doing the same. This is totally not my nature, I could never lie... But it has really worked.. he seems a bit confused and hesitant and has got much nicer. It's also helped keep the peace, since I just don't bother to argue over things, I just tell him what he wants to hear.

Of course it's not a llife plan but for now I feel much saner.[/quote]

I know! I started to give it back to him a little and he backs off a little. I also don't care what he thinks anymore and I am just going to live my own happy life. Divorce is for sure in the future, but I bought myself some time to pick up the pieces of myself.

The first step is to recognize what he does and says for what it is: a load of BS. I don't believe anything my DH says anymore, because I don't know what the truth is.[/quote]

NP.  Me too.  I tried for so long to have a normal, respectful, honest, intimate relationship.  Turning their BS around on them is the only thing that makes an impact.  [/quote]

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