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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is everyone so sure it's gaslighting and not just a really poor memory?[/quote] Because it's much more en vogue to be a victim. [/quote] Because someone with a really poor memory doesn't behave as if their (poor) memory of past events and conversations is infallible, and dismiss their partner's divergent memory as obviously false/crazy. Now OP hasn't specifically addressed this, but that is the difference.[/quote] Ok, but no one has answered 13:19, which seems like the middle ground? If it's not a long term, conscious strategy but rather a total lack of accountability? My DH is like this - it always feels like he just makes s*** up to make whatever issue go away, but it NEVER involves an admission of responsibility or, God forbid, an apology.[/quote]
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