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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd be careful on the continued open door option offer to the kids. It may be perceived as interfering in the custody agreement in the eyes of the courts and to your kids as a viable offer. I'd offer suggestions on they can navigate the difficult situation and some therapy. [/quote]

You are insane.  Never would I ever tell my kids they can't come live with me.  Although I do agree that OP probably needs to tell his kids that mom didn't mean it and that everyone needs to calm down.  [/quote]

PP here. Imagine what a court might think if he is always telling the kids they can live with him and it goes against the custody agreement. It may sound like interfering with her custody rights. Also, the kids should know they are loved and will always have a safe place. Though if he keeps on offering them a home how will it look to them if they say yes but the mom refuses in the end. More confusion and disappointment. Therapy. Love. Strategies to navigate the situation ... unless you are willing to do more than talk, and put your money where your mother is and take her to cour for Custody. Otherwise it is all talk that keeps the kids hopes up just to get possibly crushed

Finally, have you ever tried a parent coordinator ??[/quote]

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