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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell your husband that if he wants his mom there then your mom gets to go to his next prostate exam. It's unreal to me that he is pushing you on this. You are the patient. You decide. Your comfort is the only thing that matters here. And a fucking welcoming committee? For a baby that will never remember even a speck of the day? He's letting her emotionally blackmail both of you. [/quote] This. Do not cave on this. Your DH needs to learn NOW to stand up to his mom. So when the baby is here and she wants to take him for a drive without a car seat, but it's just a litte drive, just down the street, that's ok, right? Seriously if he can't explain to her that she does not get to be there for your very private and painful medical event, he needs to get it together. You will likely be totally naked, knees up to your ears and pooping on a table. There is no 'sitting on a corner and not watching' during child birth. You do not need the stress of having her there or even in the next room. If you are looking for a compromise, have your mom wait to meet the baby too. There's no way in hell that I wanted my mom to witness my deliveries. [/quote]
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