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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]White wash is an expression about covering up some misdeed. It's origins come from using cheap white paint. It's not a racist statement.[/quote]

Yes that's true when it is used to describe circumstances which are being covered-up or camouflaged, as with paint. [b]But describing the action of a white MIL trying to shape a DIL of another culture or race or ethnicity into someone who is more like MIl as "whitewashing"--that is offensive.[/b][/quote]

Non-white person here. I don't understand what is offensive about the term when it's describing something that is completely offensive- trying to erase or dismiss a non-white culture or heritage. Can you explain more?[/quote]

NP. What I found somewhat offensive is what OP is saying "will they white wash me" before anything happens, showing prejudice herself ahead of time. She is posting ahead of time to find out how racist and accepting have other MILs been. This shows, to me, prejudice and intolerance on her part.[/quote]

PP here. I see. So it's not the term itself that's offensive, but OP's attitude or beliefs?[/quote]

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