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[quote=Anonymous]DW here. 45, no sex in 5+, maybe even 8 years. Rejection hurts so much. My DH is either gay, asexual or addicted to porn. Looking back sex was always so-so. I won't leave after 15+ years and 3 kids, but I do masturbate every morning. I don't care if he knows- he's usually "sleeping"

At some point I'll probably find a friend and become lovers. I get hit on often, I'm very sexual, I need to be touched - even non sexually would be fine.

I imagine we'll always stay married, but I don't think my marriage vows were meant to include forced celibacy.

I've expressed my concerns about no sex every way possible. He does not care. I've asked for an open marriage and he looked "hurt", really? Are u kidding me! His reply was that if it was something I really wanted to do and thought was right, he wouldn't care as long as not someone he knows. I haven't acted, because it was more of a cry for help, but his reply told me all that I needed to know.

I have no advice, just know that there are many attractive DWs in sexless marriages. And it sucks!

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