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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would have divorced his ass by now. That's your money too, OP. That's money that could go toward college for your kids, retirement, emergency savings, travel. YOU, OP, are enabling him to enable her. Don't complain about this dynamic--you accept it, you are a party to it.[/quote] This. Stop complaining about a dynamic you choose to enable.[/quote] Your husband is a loyal son who is obviously dedicated to family.He should set limits and consult a lawyer and maybe a therapist regarding this, but you have a gem who has overcome much but not abandoned his roots. I know it must be difficult to put up with. I've drawn the line at loaning money to my husband's working class family, but only because their numbers are so vast that it would never end. We help out with gifts where we can.[/quote]
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