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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a woman and I don't understand what you want from him! Do you want him to stay home, or call you while he's out? You need to be more specific.[/quote]

She doesn't want either.

She is sharing her feelings... He doesn't need to do anything, maybe hug her.

It's no different than... My mom has cancer, I am sad today. He can't fix, he doesn't need to do anything,  but she should be able to share how she feels.

I simple... I'm sorry you are sad today.[/quote]

This is OP - this is exactly what I'd like.  I don't care that he gets coffee.  I want him to care that it triggers anxiety once in a while.  I want him to reassure me that the affair is over and that I'm important to him.  That's all.  I've told him that, the exact words.  He can't say them without condemning me in some backhanded way.  He'll open with  (paraphrasing) since you're so (defective or insert other criticism) I'll try again to tell you I was wrong for having an affair.  But what I really want to hear is that he cares about how hurt I am.  I tell him exactly that, but it gets turned around all the time.  I don't understand what is going on.  It seems to me like I'm clear.[/quote]

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