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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For 20 years I ignored his slovenly habits and quietly cleaned up after him myself (he has ADD, so there was no point in trying to work out a middle road about his messiness). For 20 years I did all the parenting, including talking to the kids when I found a pot pipe and urging one of them to get his C/D grades up to B's, even as Ex said I was being "too hard" on the kids and refused to pitch in.

I stuck with it for 20 years because I figured my shoulders were broad and the kids needed stability.

He left anyway to pursue his fantasies about being a bachelor. The kids have told me repeatedly that they appreciate my attempts to instill work ethic, and DS has said maybe 50 times that he wishes he had had a male role model. [/quote]

And can I just say that it's so therapeutic to type out these things, which I've only told my family and a few select friends. Even if it is in aid of pointing out to MRA moron that it's not always the wife's fault in every single case.[/quote]

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