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[quote=Anonymous]I didn't read all the comments but want to add my situation here. Not a really advising but just letting you know, there is a fix for your relationship problem. I was exactly in the same situation as you are, OP. The cycle of arguing came back every couple months. The same type of arguing would happen and ended with the same result. Nothing resolved. I was at my wit end and didn't know what to do beside killing myself. Luckily I tried Marriage Therapy individually because my husband hinted that he doesn't want to go to therapy. My therapist help my tremendously, she pointed out the proper way to respond to our arguments and how to change my husband responses based on my small changes in communication. Yes, I did all the work myself but it works, not right away slowly. Things improved and we have been happier. The problem is kind of coming from poor communication but there are lot more other factors beside just communication. If none of you change how you express yourself the same reaction would happen and the same old pattern happens. You and/or your husband need to make a change so that it doesn't trigger the same behavior. Then communication somehow becomes a lot easier. Good luck OP.[/quote]
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