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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's missing from the discussion is....do you love him??  Does he love you?  [/quote]
This.
Do you spend quality time when you are together?[/quote] Not really... he's absorbed by his iPad. We do occasional dates, but only if I make the arrangements.[/quote]

Then start with that. Spend quality time together when you are together. No screens. [/quote]I'd have to tear it from his cold, dead hands. Honestly. I swear.[/quote]

Just ask him. I have to do this with my DH. He doesn't travel as much as yours (about half as much), but sure, it can be tough. But it will be tougher without him.

I did get to the point where I liked it better when he was gone. But we are coming back. Make a point to do the things to reintroduce intimacy in your life. Dates, yes, you are going to have to arrange them. Just do it every week.  Talk every day, find something special to do together. Make a point to see his good qualities. Complement him. Have sex every week, if not more.[/quote] OP here... it's really hard. He thinks everything is perfectly fine and he is perfectly happy with things as they stand. I am miserable.[/quote]

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