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[quote=Anonymous]I think conversations about the appropriateness or danger of her husband's reaction depends on how long OP has been married and the nature of the break up with the ex.

I have one ex with whom the break up was not related to a falling out between us - he was moving out of the country and I was not willing to go with him, so we broke up. I met my husband a few months post-break up. Had my ex sent me birthday flowers early in my relationship with H, H would totally have been jealous. Given the non-event that the flowers would be, telling him would've been needless drama.

I don't know the OP's husband. What I do know is that the ex needs to be told, clearly, not to contact the OP. "Phil, I received your flowers. I understand that you were trying to be kind, but it is not appropriate. Please do not contact me again." Then later, OP can tell her H, "H, Phil sent flowers to my office for my birthday. I told him that it was not appropriate and not to contact me again and got rid of the flowers, but I wanted to let you know that it had happened in case he does not respect my wishes."[/quote]

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