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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's really alarming that you  are dreading fall out from your husband from telling him about this.

That is not normal at all.

I think you should consider therapy because it seems you have a pattern of choosing unstable men.[/quote]

+1.

Either your husband is a lunatic or you're leaving something out, like your history of cheating. [/quote]

I think some people are reading way too much into this. I think you would all be lying if you flipped it around...would you be totally cool with an ex sending gifts to your current husband/partner? Sure, maybe you wouldn't have a big blowout or feel threatened, but if it would cause uncomfortable feelings, you are kidding yourselves. It does not mean there is one single thing wrong in your relationship. It simply is human nature that nobody wants their husband': ex sending them gifts. That's. It. Nothing. More. So it would be completely understandable that OP does not want her husband to feel anything uncomfortable for no reason. [/quote]

I've had that happen.
I've had an ex send my husband love notes. My reaction ? I laughed it about it with him.
I was not bothered.
Also uncomfortable feelings is far different from being worried about fall out .[/quote]

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