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[quote=Anonymous]OP, here's my story. I always wanted kids in a hypothetical sense - I liked them when I babysat or held my cousin's kids. But when it became time to "try" or pick a date to try, I was a bit ambivalent. (I was around your age, 34). And definitely a little worried and scared about what it mean. It took me 5 months to get pregnant, and then I had a miscarriage, and even then I still felt a bit ambivalent. Then I got pregnant again and became a mother. A dozen years in, it is the single best thing I've ever done in my life. And I say this as someone who is an adventurous traveler and who has a somewhat impressive career, so it's not as if I don't have any other accomplishments. For me, I think it takes me awhile to adjust to change, and that's why I felt the way I did in my mid-30s.[/quote]
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