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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hope you have your child support in place first. Good luck to you.[/quote]i

I do.  Thank you.  He is paying way more to us than the court would demand considering that child support is a formula based on income differentiation.  Guilt is a powerful emotion.  Unfortunately, if she gets what she wants including back child support, my husband will have a difficult time meeting both obligations (she makes around 11-12 dollars an hour).

[b]Basically, to pay us and her (and her husband), he will be living with his mom in a two bedroom crummy condo for the next 20 years.  My concern is where are my kids going to stay when they are with him, especially if he has this other child 10 days a month.[/quote][/b]

I recall that your husband wanted to stay married and you were torn about divorce.  I'm not trying to peddle moral superiority but, as a mother, I will always put my child's welfare first and that includes maintaining a two-parent household. We need both the parenting and the income - the loss of both is a cost to the child.

So I don't understand how you could choose this outcome for your kids.  He made a serious mistake, he's paying for it in every possible way, but now your kids have to visit their dad in their dad in this crummy situation?  Obviously the facts are now out in the open - do they hate him as much as you do?[/quote]

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