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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hope you have your child support in place first. Good luck to you.[/quote]i

I do.  Thank you.  He is paying way more to us than the court would demand considering that child support is a formula based on income differentiation.  Guilt is a powerful emotion.  Unfortunately, if she gets what she wants [b]including back child support[/b], my husband will have a difficult time meeting both obligations (she makes around 11-12 dollars an hour).  
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How could she get back child support when the child was living with her and her husband as if he was theirs, and the husband is named on the birth certificate?  That seems like an easy thing for your husband to fight.  At the very least, the back child support wouldn't go back to the beginning of the child's life, but possibly some later date. Good luck to you. [/quote][/quote]

OP here.  She wanted 38,000 in back child support.  My husbands lawyer has said hell to the no on that but it is up to the court to decide.
I agree though.  Her husband is the legal father and has raised him since birth.  Very different some a single mom situation.  Most likely, child support would start from the day she filed.[/quote]

She can ask for what ever she wants.  Usually child support is only retro active to the date of filing, not birth.  My husband's ex asked for a huge increase in court plus a portion of my salary.  The judge responded by taking two of the three kids over 18 off child support and removing alimony which he overpaid for both for several years.  She got much less in the end plus a huge attorney bill.  It can go either way but a reasonable judge (which is an issue as he may not get a reasonable one) might be annoyed she lied about paternity, etc.[/quote]

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