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Reply to "Has anyone successfully stayed married just for the kids? Is this a good idea?"
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[quote=Anonymous]The only way you can do this is if you stop fighting. And if you stop fighting, who know, maybe your relationship will change. So the net time something pops up that bugs you, let it go. Just let it go. Don't fight. It takes two people to fight. Start disengaging. You are thinking of divorcing. So why does it matter? Whatever petty thing you are fighting about, why does it matter? if nothing else, starting to disengage now - letting go of frustration, anger, expectations - will help you as you divorce, because if nothing else you want an amicable divorce. So just start today. No more fighting. he doesn't do something he said he would? Oh well, you knew he wouldn't, so why get upset? Just suck it up and do it yourself. He comes at you about something you did/didn't do? Who cares? Let it go. Try it for one week. See how that changes things. [/quote]
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